I have had 3 pregnancies, two living children and one miscarriage at 16 weeks. After my most recent pregnancy I got really bad abdominal separation. My doctor advised me to go ahead and complete my family before getting abdominal surgery to correct everything. So we have been TTC for the past 4 months. Last month I had a chemical pregnancy. I’m 10 dpo today and pretty sure I’m out this month. I’m really starting to think the chemical was God’s way of telling me to stop trying and wait for a while. But I really want one more child and for my children to be fairly close together in age. I have a 4.5 year old and a 14 month old. I’m just so torn on this. Anyone else experienced anything similar? I know everything is in Gods perfect timing but I’m just so unsure of what to do.