Hello, hear me out & tell me if I’m overreacting. My husband & my lil sis have been communicating via text & social media for few years. He even go as far as lurking her pages on what she does or who she dates. He is so generous that he sends her money multiples times via Venmo & put a “❤️🌸” while sending the money without my consent. One time she even asked me to tell my husband to stop texting her. I told him multiple times to leave her alone, because it is making him look creepy. He said he is just trying to help her & I can’t dictate what he should do.

Ok fast forward, he recently took her out to dinner & lied to me that he was going out with his colleague. He told her not to tell me about it. He has just been acting suspicious & I don’t know what’s the issue. Now I told him that I don’t trust him & he is upset. He said I’m delusional & insecure, why would I disrespect him in that way. Why would I think he will ever cheat on me with my sis. He said she’s like a lil sister to him & he helps whomever God send his way.

Now he is making himself a victim & I’m the delusional, insecure, & crazy. I don’t know how he expect me to feel by lying to me. Please your advice & thoughts would be greatly appreciated. I love my husband & have been with him for way too long to loose him over this bs.