Vent story time
I need to vent and get this off my mind for now at least. So recently I’ve realized my partner doesn’t enjoy me. He doesn’t want to spend much time together. He’s always on his phone. He doesn’t pay much attention to our child either. It’s just really a dead end for me. My top love language is “quality time”. He doesn’t give me much time anyways and it causes me to be resentful and I feel like shit because of it. For #1 I think we are broken up at this current moment. He told me to leave his house but I’m not leaving without my child. Are you kidding me. What does he think I’m some pos mother? I have primary custody of him. Why would I leave him? That really made me angry tonight he said that to me. It was over this love language quiz I asked him to take but he ignored me for a long time and didn’t do it so I started asking him about it but he was busy playing his game he couldn’t take 4 mins to do it. Well he finally did it. So I got to find out what his love languages are too. He said it was a waste of time. Like he has so much better things to do. So I said good I’m glad you did it now you know for the next victim. Like that actually matters at this current moment anyway. Y’all how can this guy just tell me to leave. I guess I will make him get an eviction because I’m not leaving my own child. Not happening. Won’t happen idc. I’m his primary caregiver. For #1 the guy don’t have a work schedule and for 2, he’s not going to have his elderly grandmother caring for my child when I’m fully capable of doing so. No. That isn’t the best interest for my child. I been doing this since he’s been born. That won’t be changing anytime soon either. He’s my son. Period. I’m so sick of this monster trying to get me to abandon my son. In the meantime he mentally abusive saying “I’m so sick of paying for you” , “I’m so sick of wasting time” blah blah blah. Then later or tomorrow he will act like everything is fine. Well newsflash nothing is fine. That shit is fucked up and I will not stand for the shit, no.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.