So usually my and my little family go with my family for Christmas <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">Eve</a> and Christmas Day with my bfs side of the family. Now recently he had his best friend in the hospital due to a stroke . And he just told me today that he’s not sure if he wants to do anything for Christmas and just stay home. Every year we have been with our families. And he was telling me he doesn’t care to be around anybody and wants to be alone and it’s making me think should I just go with my family for a few hours and then go home ? But I also don’t want to go for a few hours then hear him complain on how I wasn’t at home with him. I just want to go with my family for my daughter even if it’s 2 hours of being there. He said he’s tired of being told what to do by our families. But I’m very family orientated and now he’s starting to feel like he wants to do things as a family alone. Just me him and my daughter. I don’t mind that but I’ve always been with family for holidays basically since I was little. He told me he doesn’t know if he’s feeling like this because of what happened to his friend and just wants to be with him or what. Then I told him well if you want to go to the hospital to see your friend I can take you then I can go to my families house for the time while your at the hospital then tells me that he doesn’t know if he wants to go and doesn’t want to make plans. I just don’t want to go to my families house for a little bit Christmas <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">Eve</a> and then it back fires at me. He feels like our families tells u what to do why don’t we go if we don’t want to. And our moms get butthurt sometimes if we don’t go. He didn’t like that my mom had something to say when he missed my birthday dinner and yes I said something to him because I was upset and mad and he thinks my mom gets in my head but in reality she wasn’t. I was mad because I had felt like I had postpone my birthday dinner so he could go and then the day comes and he doesn’t show up because he lost his phone/ wallet. Idk I’m feeling stressed all I want is my daughter to have a good time for Christmas and not be stuck in our house doing the same shit she does every day playing toys and watching tv. Then when I ask what he wants to eat that day he said idk like well I would need to know so I can have something special at our house even if it’s us 3 at least after visiting some family . Idk I just think I need some advice from families that don’t go to their families house on holidays and just celebrate within their immediate family.