"Women want a 7 foot tall body builders with a million dollars"

I do not understand why men think its hard to attract women.

Literally every woman I know (which is a wide net of successfulness and attractiveness among friends/family) had the first piece of attraction being someone who is nice to them. Like sure there's other standards we might eventually also hold to but I feel those are movable depending on if we find someone who is truly kind to us, not the "be nice to get in her pants and then you can start being mean" guys.

Like literally the bar is so low we just want someone who actually likes us and is nice.

Like anytime a guy is really nice to me and notices things it makes him 7000% more attractive