Dating while pregnant ?

Question

I currently have one son and ended up falling pregnant from a one night thing & im just curious how would you guys go about talking or still dating people? Just wait until after? I have people that try to talk to me or engage and I don’t know how to bring up the fact im pregnant or what they’ll think..  the father will not be involved and I don’t want anyone to think im just trying to find a father for my child.

Answer

Currently 35 weeks and a few days and the father of my baby boy is not ready to be a daddy. I’ve been dating ever since he made it clear that he found someone he really liked etc. I’m just honest upfront about the fact that I’m pregnant. They will either want to pursue or not. I also don’t engage in sexual activity with them until I sense a connection and see potential. I’ve pushed a few good ones away but I’m just taking it slow. I want to wait till my son is here and give it a few more months. Of course you get horny lol so if you’re comfortable and they are than go for it but obviously use protection as people lie about being clean. Also there’s a thing with people liking pregnant pussy and they will try to live bomb you just to get in your pants. Be careful. Have fun but most of all put you and you me baby first.

Answer

Obviously, everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but some men may be freaked out by the fact that you’re already pregnant, too much baggage, they don’t want to be the reason for you having a miscarriage, responsibility, you get the point. They may judge you and think you’re irresponsible, or you trapped him or whatever, and are not responsible with your sexual health or want to make them responsible for the next 18 years. You get the point you’re gonna get backlash whether you do or you don’t. If you’re honest and tell them, you’re pregnant, they may run the other way, or maybe it’s somebody who can’t have children and is happy that you’re pregnant, and would love to claim that child as his own, you never know what you’re gonna get. Everyone has red flags or boundaries that freak them out or maybe it’s too much to deal with.obviously not everybody wants to deal with somebody who comes with kids, sometimes you get lucky and they love your kids like their own, sometimes they want you, and they don’t want the kids, you never know what you’re gonna get. Especially somebody who’s just dating around to have fun or casual sex, they probably don’t want the responsibility or added pressure or whatever it may be in their head. They’re just looking to have fun and you already come with the whole package deal. Or you might get lucky like I said you never know what you’re gonna get. At this point if it were me, I would just focus on my pregnancy, not add the additional stress of dating in relationships, or being ghosted or anything else by people who don’t understand or freak out about the situation and just focus on your pregnancy and hopefully it’s an easy pregnancy and you’re not sick the entire time or anything like that and miserable. Good luck on your pregnancy.

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