No female support with bras 😔 *vent*

I’m 23 and just got a breast augmentation in October. Everything has already dropped and fluffed and now I’m having a hard time trying to figure out what’s the best bra for getting clevleage.. something I’ve never had before.

I tried asking my girl friends and they act like I’m crazy for asking what kind of bras they wear or what they do to get more cleavage.

(Funny enough they all have that and I feel like they’re just refusing to help me)

I’ve never actually had a pair of boobs to call mine permanently. I’m so lost I have no idea what I’m looking at. I also haven’t went bra shopping in years. I think I stopped shopping for them when I was 16. Other times when I was pregnant buying maternity bras.

I feel so alone and stuck. We don’t have a VS where I live so it’s not like I could just go there to get some help. I’m really just trying to find something that would help me with this huge gap.

I’m a 34D and still feel as small as before because when I check online all the girls even models look bigger than me so I have no idea what I’m supposed to be looking at. Lol I feel like a lost teenager again when I got my A cup at 15 wearing trainer bras transitioning into an actual bra. Part of me wonders if maybe I’ve just been brainwashed into thinking that it’s normal to have cleavage that I’ve put so much of that focus onto myself I don’t actually know what’s normal and what’s not. To be fair I haven’t seen enough boobs to even know what they should even look like. I just know I always wanted them to sit pretty and show through something low cut without having to force my arms to squish them to have cleavage.

Anywho… if any ladies have any ideas they would be highly appreciated.