Am I wrong for feeling uncomfortable?

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I’m currently pregnant and left my bd due to infidelity when I was 3 months pregnant. I can’t help but notice these months we have been apart he has been constantly messing around and having sex with girls who are almost 10 years younger than him. 
He’s 30 and these girls just entered their fresh 20’s. I know it isn’t my business but I can’t help but feel uncomfortable. He can’t get woman his age? He constantly preys on young and naive girls. Makes me weird tbh. It’s giving predator vibes…

Accepted Answer

He goes for young girls because they’re more likely to put up with his BS unlike women his age.

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U left him, thankgoodness for that, so completely ignore all that, u shouldnt feel any type of way because it has nothibg to do with you

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This is in fact weird. Lots of men go for young women because they are more naive and they can impress and be everything in their eyes. Men are also feeling good about the fact they can have control over their partner. But hey, he is not your man anymore , good riddance! Try not to invest in anything with him and try to disconnect. It is no longer your concern or your problem.

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Yep. It’s gross. He’s doing that because he has low self esteem, wants to play, young women are easy to manipulate, and don’t come with strings attached. It’s cringe. He’s gonna do his thing though. Good job kicking his lame ass to the curb!

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I’m so sorry ❤️ Of course you have the right to feel uncomfortable!! I would have killed mine if he put me in the same position. He is your fathers child, you’ll have to raise this baby together and have him in your life for at least 18 years. You have all right to be upset, though I doubt it’ll do you any good ❤️

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Very much predatory. He’s insecure and these young girls feed his ego. You are better off without him. Let God handle his poor judgement and you move on with your life. Live for your baby and self. What he does after you left has nothing to do with you. My final advice is supervised visits ONLY!!when that day comes. Blessing la to you and your bundle 💋

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He isn’t loyal, good thing you left him. I can’t speak on the age thing as my partner and I have a 13 year age gap/together for 9 years and expecting our first. You will find better. Until then make sure you surround yourself with as much support as possible. Rooting for you!

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Yeahh they usually do 🤦🏾‍♀️

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Why does it make YOU uncomfortable? You broke up with him..

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It is not none of your business because you’re going to have a young child and you can’t have a predator around your baby. I’m not sure if it’s a girl or a boy, but it doesn’t matter, because you might have a case here to argue against him, being around a minor child due to his behaviors. I would take note of everything and if you have anything in text message form, start taking a Screenshots now just in case. I’m sorry that you’re going through this!

Am I wrong for feeling uncomfortable?

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