Am I over thinking this?

I want to ghost a guy but not sure if I’m over thinking/exaggerating. I hate the thought of ghosting but I do want to potentially end this.

I had been talking to a guy for 2 months. Prior to our very first date there were 2 occasions where he posted a video on Snapchat of him at a bar which appeared to be strip clubs. Idk if they were strip clubs but the girls were in thongs. They looked like bottle service girls. One was shaking her ass in front of him and the other was sitting next to his friend with her thigh on his lap. No lie I was thrown off by this. I’m going to get criticized as to why I care if he’s nothing to me. Just didn’t like that.

He kept asking me out and I denied his invitations. I told him that he’s always with girls. I know I had to no right to tell this to someone who is literally nothing to me. They don’t owe me respect. He asked me what I meant by girls because he never posts girls. I told him it’s been 2x that he posts himself at a bar that appears to be like strip clubs or VIP dancers. They aren’t completely nude though. They do carry a bottle and some lights but why are they twerking in front of him. I told him it seemed like that’s what he likes. He said “I just went there because it was my cousins birthday and the second time it was my bosses birthday too. I really don’t go there and those girls are not my type.”

He still pursued me and I went on first date expecting nothing really. Surprisingly he was very polite and gentleman. Our conversation really demonstrated a different side of him making me realize he wants a long term relationship. Or so I thought

Now I had date #2 as his house this past Thursday! It led to sex and I’m just regretting this honestly.

So I strictly demanded a condom. He said he had some and that he always protects himself with condoms. Seemed like we were both cautious. He said condoms are a must with him and even in his long term relationship he used them even if they were monogamous. He also said “I really don’t just sleep with anyone like that” (could have been a lie idk)

So we hung out after we were done and we started talking about stuff and he made a comment like “trust me I know you’re a good woman I would never hurt you. I’m always up front and if I don’t feel it I will let you know instead of leading you on.” Every thing seemed to be great.

Then he gets a call from his uncle. He puts it on speaker to let me know it is an uncle. The uncle sounded buzzed. He tells the guy that they should go to TJ, Mexico right now. My guy just laughs and is like “no you’re drunk huh” and his uncle insists for him to go and hit the bars/clubs. I told him “if you gotta go just let me know. The guy tells me he’s not going to TJ. He tells me he really wants to go to Rosarito for sure once it’s spring break. Then he tells me “I’ve never really been to the clubs in Tijuana like Hong Kong and all that….maybe one day”

I look at him really annoyed. Hong Kong is a stripclub in Mexico and I know you can sleep with them. It really is a prostitution club and they even provide condoms there. I have had cousins of mine telling me they can sleep with stippers there.

That whole phone call with his uncle made me feel gross having sex with him. Yes we used a condom and never finished inside me. It makes me wonder if he’s slept with strippers before or when he has posted the stories on his Snapchat. Sorry I’ve never been but I have heard stories and it makes me feel like he has or eventually would sleep with one. Idk how to end it or if I perhaps should not. He has texted me these past 2 days but idk if I like the fact he can go to a strip club in Tijuana Mexico.