My partner and I have been together going on 3 years now. We have an 18 month old son together. Things with us have been really hard the past 6 months since my child’s 1st birthday, things have been very different too.

Now my partner has been playing this game well a few games. Pubg, and Viking rise has really taken over his life since my babies 1st birthday back in June. He doesn’t really do much with our child. He doesn’t feed him, he doesn’t play with him, he doesn’t do much besides buy wipes and diapers. That’s about it. My partners mother and his grandma spend way more time with our son. For backstory purposes we live with my partners mother and grandma.

All my partner wants to do is nothing but play his games and be on his phone. I told him countless times please spend 2-3 hrs after work with us. He won’t do it. Says he will but doesn’t follow through with it.

My partner says I’m a bit__. He claims he don’t want to really take me anywhere because he calls me the b word. He mainly will only take me to see his family members or to the store. When it comes to his work friends and his friend life in general, he don’t want me involved. He has made me look so bad like I’m the bad guy he’s so embarrassed to even take me around. It hurts. It hurts that he only tells them my side of the story and doesn’t share what he had done to me. It’s always me being the bad guy in every situation. It’s not true. So with that said it makes it very difficult to even communicate throughout the day because his boss doesn’t like me. Says he can’t talk on the phone or even communicate when he’s off work. He has made this guy look really abusive. I don’t like it. I’ve told my partner time and time again, if your that embarrassed of me, leave me. It’s simple. I just don’t understand. I’m a sahm doing the best I can with what I got but I can’t help but feel hurt by the way he treats me. Also that isn’t even everything I’m sure that’s just briefly what’s going on right now. I don’t wanna have to give up. I’m about at that point though because no matter how much I wish he would change, fact is over the last 6-7 months it’s been the same thing. Me doing everything for our child. It’s just really sad he’s going to loose me over self inflicted issues of his own. I’ve tried all I can do. So I wont feel bad when I do leave.

Edit to add: I am 34 years old my partner is 28 years old he’s a male I’m a female.