My daughter is 13 and I’m having my first boy I am excited . I guess the circumstances around the pregnancy in the beginning made it hard for me to be happy . Now I’m much more relaxed happier and ready to meet him not saying I wasn’t . I would get mad when anyone said anything about the pregnancy or my family talking too much telling people my business set me off that I would curse everyone out . And I also think it was me detoxing off of weed I would be cranky now I’m just chill about everything. My youngest sister has 2 boys she didn’t raise just gave them to my mom and now she raising her daughter and her sons see that I think that hurts them to the point they resent the baby and don’t care to spend time with her . She really thinks she knows what’s best for my child when she doesn’t I have never texted her phone and told her what I thought was right or wrong for her daughter . She’s trying to tell me what to do or not to do for my son wants to be here when I get out the hospital and I don’t want that I want her to respect my decision and step back . I got this I appreciate the offer but I don’t need or want anyone in my house after giving birth let me have my bonding time with my son . Whenever I come out she can see him at my moms I’ve always been the type to want to be alone don’t want to hurt her feelings but I raised my daughter without her I don’t need her to be around all the time while I’m raising my last child. Hope I don’t sound too cruel but I’m not telling her when I’m in labor I don’t need her there telling doctors what to do or making decisions for me love has nothing to do with it I don’t need her projecting her fears and worries on me like I said this her first child she ever raised not me . I decided to keep my son so I’ll always be there for him take care of him and always make sure I’m making the best decisions for him .