Me and my husband disagree and fight every time we bring up what our family, more specifically my family, can and can’t do with our one month old baby. He says they cannot babysit, feed, change, or walk while holding our baby. Now this is my family. There is no one I trust more in this world. He keeps saying he wants to have a discussion but it ends up with him dictating what I’m gonna allow for my child. I don’t care if my own mother stands while holding my child, changes, or feeds him. But for some reason my husband is dead set against it. He keeps saying just wait another month. In my opinion there is no difference. I feel like he doesn’t respect what I want or my opinion when it comes to our baby. He thinks my mom doesn’t respect him and she doesn’t but rightfully so, either way she knows who our child’s parents are. We had a rocky relationship at the beginning and any parent would not respect it after the things he has said and done to me in the past. And as we all know as a parent that stuff is hard to move past. But she is nice to him and never says anything to him that would be rude. Now he’s taking everything she says and twisting it to fit his negative agenda. It’s just frustrating. How do I approach a level headed convo with him about this. We don’t have to throw out his rules but we do need to compromise.