Some guys were telling me that ALL men masturbate to other women WHILE in relationships!! And if not they're "saints"!! I don't masturbate to thoughts and images of other men!! If some other man pops up, I either stop or I take out a photo of my BF or think about him, and him ONLY! It would hurt me so much if my boyfriend thought about other women while masturbating! Please tell me that there are some good, honest men out there!!

I hate how some men do things and then say all men do it.... I don't think all men think about other women when masturbating, neither do I think all men cheat! Maybe some do but not all!

Neither mastrubation nor porn has any place in my husband and I's relationship. We have very strong convictions on this subject.

I think as long as when you initiate sex with your other half they get turned on and enjoy that time with you, i dont personally think it matters who they visualise when getting off privately, i dont necessarily visualise my husband when i do it, i dont visualise anyone real to be honest - certainly nobody else i know but when im with him all i think about is him. *shrugs* just my opinion.

Porn ruins relationships. This is a fact It causes women to feel inadequate when their guy is getting off to another woman Guys need to think how they would feel if women their gf was getting off on other hot men with 6 pack abs and model looks..." hold on honey, I'll be right there, I'm just getting turned on by this other guy over here since your Pillsbury Doughboy guy doesn't do it for me! I'll be out as soon as I'm turned on enough to want your tiny dick in me" Guys never think of this and think porn is ok because for them, ( their, wants, their pleasure, their jollies) it's all great amd harmless...TO THEM MAYBE at that moment! It is such bullshit that society pushes this on to young men that it's ok to disrespect their girlfriends and wives..well guess what?? IT'S NOT OK TO GET OFF ON ANOTHER WOMAN WHEN YOU HAVE ONE YOU CLAIM TO LOVE! If she's not enough to fulfill your needs then let her go and stop lying to her face.

My husband masturbates to other women (pornography) all the time. Its only to get a nut. He dosent obsess over them though.

Lol why are u asking a community of women 😂 i wish there was glo for men where we could go ask these questions

Those are called boys not men. Sorry but not all men do that. That's a stereotype to make people feel better.

I think 98% of people who think that when someone watches porn, they're thinking of those people on the screen. That's not the case. Hell if I ever saw anyone in real life from a porn I doubt I'd even recognize them. It's never about the people on the screen it's about me being horny and trying to resolve that issue. I'd only see a problem if my spouse was obsessed with porn but I think "to each his own" and to not be so closed minded and negative about it. Ask YOUR boyfriend how he views porn. That's all you need to be worried about :)

I don't see a problem with neither, it's fun to do both with one another but that's just me! Seeing each other masturbate can be healthy for a relationship and can spice things up.

Do all MEN masturbate to other women while in relationships???