I grew up with my dad not allowing me to have friends outside of family. Now it seems like I struggle to keep friends at age of 24. Idk what I’m doing wrong. I’m so nice to everyone and I will always go out my way for them. But eventually they always end up ghosting me, using the fuck out of me, Or I end up having to cut them off cause they get flirty with my man. I really put in all my effort into them. Idk what I’m doing wrong and it just really kills me. Anyone else have struggles with friends ?

One example, a friend I’d literally die for, actually KNEW my man cheated on me. Seen him with girls, and just never told me. She would lie to my face saying he never cheated and was so loyal. He’s the one that confessed later on and even told me that my friend knew.

Another friend would only come around when she was going through it with her man. When I was going through it, she was no where to be found. Anytime she made new friends she would just ghost me.

I could go on for hours.