would you stay with him if you love him but

your relationship has to be a secret, hes been out of work for a year and cant provide for you. he gets his money out of women who has sympathy for him. doesnt have a car or his own place. always whining about him not being able to eat etc. says hes gonna change but still hasnt oh yeah also has a huge problem with compulsive lying. And your 4 years older than him btw ....

I think i know what to do i just need confirmation.