So my husband is very close with his mom. She adopted him and his brother when she was kind of older, so my husband is 31 and she is about 75. So they are closer in age to a grandson and grandma. Anyways, maybe about 3 or four days a week he visits her on his way to home from work, either that or he wakes up early before heading to work to have breakfast with her. I don’t mind him spending time with her obviously, sometimes I just feel like I would like him and I to have some time together sometimes, and after work is really the only time I get to see him and it makes me feel neglected and lonely after my own job. It just feels like he goes out of his way to spend time with her and I’m just kind of there like a room mate and he gets upset when I say anything about us having some time during the week for just us. Is it normal for a husband to visit his mom like 3 or 4 times a week? If so, how do you deal with it when you miss husband or need his help?

Am I out of like for feeling like this?