Is this how it works?

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Husband says if i dont want him to have a temper i need to stop pissing him off. I dont go out of my way to make him angry, sometimes i dont do anything wrong but he will go off on my infront of the kids, he calls me stupid, dumb ass, today he said only thing i was good at was opening my legs to make babies. All this because he did me wrong but wont admit it.

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No. Not at all. That’s abuse

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That is verbal and emotional abuse. Nothing about that is ok or normal.

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Your husband is being abusive and then blaming you for the abuse. Open your eyes. Get out of this relationship.

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No it’s not how it works. It’s abuse and you should probably leave.

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Time to leave, no one should deal with that kind of behaviour

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No ma’am that’s is not ok he should not be talking to you that way and u should not have to walk around on eggshells around him trying not to make him mad !!! not ok at all

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Stop choosing to stay with him.

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That’s straight up abuse. You want your children to grow up and be like him or be abused like you because they think it’s normal? 
IMO, anger is a choice. Being hurt by someone, feeling sad, happy, etc are natural responses. Being angry, especially like you are describing, is a choice. An immature, narcissistic choice.

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Nope. That is definitely not how  it works.

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No, that's not how that works. He should be speaking to you respectfully even when he is angry at you. And if he did you wrong, why are you with him? It sounds to be like the two of you should not be together. It is not a healthy relationship. ￼

Is this how it works?

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