Okay I know I should already have one since I’m 26 but I don’t. My boyfriend of 8 years and I are finally TTC and I’m not sure if I try to find a gynecologist now or if I should just wait until I get a positive test. I guess I’m not sure what the “right” steps are to take. I have been taking prenatals for about a month now so I got that part of things covered but other than that I’m lost in it there is anything else I need to do prior to a positive. I don’t want to ask my mom because if I tell her we are trying she will get overly excited and make it weird lol it best to leave this quiet with her until I get a positive.