Me and my husband hasn’t slept in bed with each other going on 4 years and it’s honestly getting to me.

He is WAY too attached with the idea of us sleeping with the kids. (4 kids)

We have a 2 bedroom house and we have 4 kids. He sleeps in 1 room with 2 kids and I sleep in 1 room with 2 kids.

I keep telling him that we need to turn one room into their room. Have a bunk bed and a toddler bed and the baby can sleep in our room.

He doesn’t want to. He can’t stand the thought of leaving the kids. I guess he has anxiety about it??

Here recently I just got a king bed because a queen isn’t big enough for me and the 2 kids. And now my husband wants me to have my other son in bed with me so 3 kids!

I want my alone time with him… I want my personal space without my kids..

We get up early—they are there… we go to bed— they are there. I have no time for myself which is so draining!

My husband doesn’t get it 😭🥺😞 and I hate taking it out on my kids because it isn’t their fault.

My son (6) begs to sleep with me and it breaks his heart when I tell him no that momma just really wants to sleep with daddy.. ugh.

This is also taking a tow on all my kids. They don’t want to stay the night (at my moms) because they are so use to sleeping with us