Anyone else??

I need some answers pls!!!! So to begin with does anyone here have a bf, or husband significant other who doesn't like to be bother in their sleep??? I mean bother like while he's sleeping and you start rubbing he's penis kissing him etc like you want sex and all he does say he's is tired he don't want any what do you do??

-Do try as many as time you need too.

- or just fall asleep.

- Masturbate

Tell me I will be reading ur comments.

In the meantime I'll tell you what I did, so I try kissing him and rub he's penis at this time he was already sleeping he told me he didn't want to do it, so I just try again and again this time he got up scream at me and say "I told you l don't t too." At this point he choke me I try covering myself so he won't be violent, he gets violent during this time when I want sex and I try to wake him up but he just won't react and makes me mad the he's rejecting me so l try and try as many as time I need too and that makes him mad. I'm just soo over it. Is this even normal he's reaction or mines?? HELP!!