How do I leave my 10 year relationship? I don’t even know where to start. We have our own home (all in his name) and 2 kids, 2year old and 7mon old. I’m just so incredibly unhappy in this relationship. I don’t even have emotion anymore towards him. The same old shit that would make me mad or sad doesn’t anymore, he hasn’t been able to turn me on in months, sex is nonexistent cause I don’t want him sexually at all, his friends are his priority over me, everyday. Video games and streaming are his priority, strangers on the internet watching him play games is his priority. He never puts me first ever. He financially drags me through the mud, he was out a job for 3 years so fully depended on my part time income. We are 6 months behind on our mortgage, 5 months behind on our car payment, just filed bankruptcy on our credit cards. He drinks every single weekend, never sleeps with me cause he’d rather play video games till 5am and sleep until 1pm. I’m just so over feeling this way and being unhappy. It hurts sm breaking our family apart…the kids would be so confused and it’d be such an adjustment. He has offered couples therapy but I don’t even want to bother cause he has been this way for years so I don’t see him changing. I know there is someone out there who can make me happy and be a better fit for me. I mean we literally don’t have 1 thing in common and I hate that I can’t support his hobbies and interests. Not to mention he triggers my childhood traumas almost everyday. Ugh….help. What do I do? Should I try couples therapy? Should I try working it out for the kids? Or do I move on…where do I start if I move on? 😭