I’m having a lot of issues. I’ve been with the same partner for 3 years. We have never had any issues and sex seemed to be our safe place and one time we never had any problems. Well recently sex is SO painful. The opening just burns and is so sore and painful during and after sex. Like I can’t really explain it. It’s not uti pain. It’s not a cut. It’s physical pain. Sore to the touch. I can’t dare pee or it feels like fire. It gets kinda swollen. We do so much foreplay. Like the last time it happened. He ate me out first and didn’t do anything rough to avoid that. Used lube. All was well until towards the end as soon as he pulled out it immediantly started. There was no dry friction. At all. But it seems to happen 8 out of 10 times. And then it’s to the point where I cry it hurts so bad. And he just gets so upset because he thinks it’s his fault. I’ve been to the OBGYN, I’ve been to a urologist. Negative for everything. I have had ongoing utis for months, but she said that is not what would cause physical pain. I’ve been on antibiotics for that. Please help. Leave any tips or suggestions. I’m at a loss.