My mom was a huge boy mom. As in the ones who hate their daughters. She spoiled my brother rotten and he could do anything he wanted. My brothers dad was absent through most of his life and maybe that's why but sge basically let my brother get away with anything. Me on the other hand she was super emotionally abusive towards me. My brother started making money online several years ago doing "Red Pill" content. Red Pill content is basically alpha male misogynistic Andrew Tate stuff. He actually met Andrew Tate before. Basically fuck women. Fuck gay people. Making fun of sexual assault. It was awful and I have a daughter and didn't want her around an uncle who thought that way. I haven't spoken to my brother in 3 years. I know something happened 2 years ago that caused him to take a bunch of pills to take his life away. My mom told me and I didn't really know how to react. I still didn't speak to him and he came across my tiktok 7 months ago with shorts from a YouTube video he posted. He said it was his last YouTube video and in it he said he regrets a lot of his content and talks about where his feelings came from. Talked about trauma that I didn't even know about involving his dad and sa and talked about his homophobia coming from being confused on his own sexuality. I didn't know what to say about it. I know my brother has stopped posting online. He's left the Internet completely and got married last month to a man and there are pictures of my brother on his Facebook and according to my mom my brother is obsessed with cats now and on medication. Everyone in my family is so proud of him and I just don't understand why everyone is trying to forget all the horrible things he's done and said. He has flat out said that rape is a man's right on his tiktok. But he deleted his entire tiktok so we just forget about it. I've had to see my brother lately at events because he's coming around the family more now and I've brought this up. My mom told me today to be mad at her for the childhood I have and while I don't have to have my brother in my life, i need to let him move on. I don't understand why he gets to live a normal life after being a horrible rape apologist woman hater for 5 years.