I’m just at a loss. I’m 35 with type 2 diabetes (got gestational diabetes that stuck from first pregnancy in 2020.)

I was finally accepting I was pregnant and then boom. First positive pregnancy test was 12/17. First confirmation dr appt 12/19 took urine and blood work. 12/20 got results beta hcg was on lower end so went in for labs again 12/21.

The beta hcg went up slightly they did not check my progesterone again. These were the only 2 labs I had. My progesterone was like 6.58 and should’ve been 12 bare minimum and they never put me on anything to supplement that and I truly think that’s a big reason in why I lost the baby💔❤️ 12/27 measuring 5w3 days had first ultrasound there was yolk and sac but no fetal pole. Dr said he was glad it was in my uterus in the right spot bc he was concerned it was ectopic with my labs and faint urine test. News to me. Next scan was 1/12 baby was measuring 7w2days and had a great strong heartbeat. I saw a different OB bc I did not like the pessimism of the last. I told her I had had some bleeding and clots and showed her pictures. She was not concerned at all even thought I mentioned my progesterone being low she didn’t recheck or look into it and I didn’t realize quite how low the progesterone truly was. I was repeating what my nursing friend told me when she saw my labs. The OB wasn’t concerned said everything looked perfect and they’d see me again 2/16 and if I had any changes let them know. I had some more bleeding followed by large clots and called the after hours on call number 1/16 and they scheduled me in 1/17 and baby was still in the ultrasound and had no heartbeat. They said baby was measuring 7w4days although I should have been 8 weeks according to my app. So they presume the baby passed 1/14 two days after my heartbeat healthy perfect ultrasound. It’s rare after hearing a heartbeat early on to miscarry apparently but yeah I’m just angry bc I feel like the OBs were both incompetent and I should have been on progesterone supplements and I feel like that’s a big if not the reason I lost my baby.