I’m honestly at a loss right now and I really need help. My vagina has looked like this my whole life I can’t even tell a time it was clear and I’m so disappointed about that! I used to shave in school (not very often honestly but I did) but I limited myself because I noticed I broke out a lot down there so I’ve been waxing now and it’s helped limit the amount of ingrowns and overall breakouts but as soon as my hair starts growing back I start breaking out and getting bumps and I don’t know what to do! I’ve tried so many different things over the years and NOTHING has helped get rid of them! I don’t wear underwear to sleep or wear tight clothes (I wear mostly baggy clothes) so ik it’s not that, I bathe with unscented soap, I’ve tried cocoa and shea butter, benzoyl peroxide, toner, tea tree, tumeric, exfoliating even a lightening bar but nothing is working. Waxing helps delay the breakouts and makes it easier to maintain the area but it’s just getting out of control and I’m just really self conscious of this. I have this on my vagina and on my happy trail and I’m really ashamed of it… most of the bumps are flat and are just dark spots but there are a good bit that are ingrowns. I’ve even felt a few hard lumps/masses a few times but they come and go. I would really appreciate any feeedback or advice because I really don’t know what to do anymore