Firstly, I am absolutely terrified to write this as I have never told anyone!

I had an abortion as a teenager after something happened to me, I felt like it was my only choice.

I'm now in my 30s, married and have been trying to conceive for years unsuccessfully.

We are approaching our ART appointment after being referred to ACS and I have not disclosed my pregnancy when I was younger as I don't want my husband to know. I have buried this secret so deep and now I feel absolutely riddled with anxiety, telling my husband isn't an option.

Will this be brought up in front of my husband at all during medical appointments?