Thoughts on cheating?

Aly • Aspiring dancer and model ❤️engaged❤️
Okay so I've never been cheated on but I currently know 4 people who have and all 4 took those guys back. And 2 of them there guys have been cheated on multiple times. I think the result is always going to end bad but I don't think cheating is a bad thing hear me out this is why I think that. I think its "the universe" or "God" or "fate" showing us that those two people aren't soul mates it's like a sign and yeah people will get hurt your always going to get hurt with love but people who ignore those signs will just get more hurt in the long run because soon they'll find out one way or another down the road when the feelings have gotten deeper that they aren't made for each other. When someone cheats I think it's a big sign to say your soul mate is still out there he/she doesn't belong with you keep looking. Thoughts? 
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Ma

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Cheating is the stupidest thing anyone could ever do...

Li

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I've been cheated on, by my husband, who later just walked out. In one sense, it was a relief to be out of a very unhealthy marriage, but I find it incredibly disrespectful to cheat and run.In my opinion, cheating is the easy way out for people who aren't willing to work on a relationship. It takes the place of a conversation and it says to the other person, You're not worth the effort.And to the person who is leading the significant other away, why would you want to be with someone who knowingly cheated? What is your logic in thinking he/she won't turn around and do the same thing to you as soon as they're unhappy or bored? Treat your SO like you did when you first met. Remember what it is that makes that person different than anyone else. Don't ever stop showing them your love, and i don't think it will be a problem.

Co

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Cheating is unacceptable. Taking back a cheater usually doesn't make them repent, it only reinforces in their warped minds that it's ok and they can get away with it. 

Mi

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If you don't want to be with someone leave, don't cheat. There's no excuse for cheating! Cheating is the lowest of all lows, when it comes to breaking the commitment of a relationship. ​​I was with a guy on a casual fling once. He said he'd broken up with his GF and I believed him. If I had of known he was with her I'd never had of been with him. As soon as I realised he wasn't being honest I ended things, but I never thought he was still with his GF. His cheating not only hurt his GF, it hurt me, and it caused me to lose a mutual friend of 10 years. That fling wasn't worth it, and I should never have trusted him like I did!