I told my husband to stop talking to his parents for awhile. We are first time parents and after our daughter was born they only came once to see her and stopped talking to us till she was 6 months old. And they only reached out because it was Xmas but really I think because it was my husbands moms birthday because after that they haven’t asked about her. So, the reason why they stopped talking to us is because his mom wasn’t in the delivery room. Yup, she made it about her. My husband did side on this with me and ofc respected my wishes of only have him and my mom in the room. Anyways, since xmas we’ve moved out of state and the times my husband calls them, since they never call him, they never ask about our daughter. Also, when we had moved apparently his mom (making it about her again and throwing a tantrum) became so sick because we moved… now if that were true she wouldn’t have gone 6 months not speaking to us and missing out on my baby girl. So, today what happen was my husband FaceTimed them and they never once asked about their granddaughter. I told him I don’t like how they treat her as if she doesn’t exist just because his mom wasn’t in the delivery room. I told him to cut them off because of how they don’t care enough to ask about our daughter and they easily had no problem cutting us off when his mom wasn’t in the delivery room. Literally the day after I had her it’s like they only came by to see her and then disappeared for 6 months. They didn’t reach out or anything until it was the good lady’s birthday. This old lady is obviously feeling some type of way and taking it out on her granddaughter. I’ve seen her ignore one of her other granddaughters just because her other son got this girl pregnant within a month and she didn’t like her. But her other 3 granddaughters she talks and has a great bound with but doesn’t try with mine or her other one.