Mixed emotions living with BF

Hi everyone I moved in with my bf about 2 & 1/2 years ago, we have a son who’s 8, I was going back and forth but finally moved in with him and my in laws. After a year I go to school part time he’s full time now and I find myself doing it all.. we had an agreement since he hates folding clothes, for him to just wash and I fold. He only kept to that once and I’ve been washing and folding unless I push him. Homework with our son, I do unless I ask him. My son is so used to me doing it all that he doesn’t ask his dad, I’ve been encouraging him more to ask his father. Projects for our son? He does it again only if I ask.

I we use to both do our bed now it’s all me. Every day, is this normal? I get it he works full time 60hrs. But I feel like I have two children I’m beyond stressed not only am I busy with school but I can’t put pause to be a mom. I have no idea how to go about this because I just need help but when I ask he makes sigh remarks “mmm I can’t even come home and relax” or “I’ll do it in a little” doesn’t get done so I do it the next morning.

There’s a pile of clothes (sweaters/ work clothes) he throws on the floor every day, every morning I pick it up and hang it. Now I left it alone so he can do it.

I’m beyond stressed and I just want help.

Idk if I’m being unreasonable because he’s the one who’s working.

Please anyone with any suggestions/ thoughts