So I was talking to one of my best friends this week and she told me that she had a heavier period and after not having one for a few months (normal for her she has pcos), she thought she may have miscarried. She went on to say this is her 4th miscarriage, none of which she has ever had a positive pregnancy test or bloodwork for. I was being supportive and we were talking about miscarriages and she asked me about what mine was like and I told her. I don't even know how we got there but she then went on to tell me that I only had one, so I couldn't possibly understand having 4. I was shocked. I had to have <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">ivf</a> to have my babies, and the loss was staggering after going through all of the treatments. She has never tested positive to know for sure that the heavier periods are from a loss and not just because she hasn't had a period in a while. I told her, since she was still finishing up this period she should test to confirm and then go see a doctor to follow-up. She said she didn't want to because it's too sad if it is a miscarriage, but she literally doesn't know and refuses to confirm. Part of me feels like she likes the attention from saying she has had multiple miscarriages, which sounds awful.

I am upset because she knows I went through injections and meds, invasive ultrasounds, I had (multiple) positive pregnancy tests and confirmed bloodwork (multiple) and an ultrasound where I saw baby. Then I lost the baby and still had to go back for another ultrasound and more bloodwork to confirm that everything came out. And she has the audacity to say that to me. I feel like I should say something but I don't know if it's worth it.