Name dilemma

We’re naming our son my maiden name. Issue I’m having is my husband wants the middle name to be his dad’s name. His dad is a good man. He’s a hard worker and always tries to do what’s right. He’d do anything for you. The only thing is he drives me absolutely insane! Like when I know he’s coming over I get upset to my stomach from knowing I’m going to be annoyed. He’s VERY loud, hyper, and a bit controlling at times.

Not only that I just don’t like the name in general. I know I have to be fair and let my husband choose since we are using my maiden name for his first name, but I just don’t like it.

When we told him we were naming his middle name after him he didn’t even acknowledge it. No “really?” Or “no way” or not even a “that’s nice” he just kind of ignored it, and kept on talking about something else. That kind of bothers me. If I told my dad we were using his middle name my dad would probably cry. I would honestly like to use my brother or grandpa’s name for his middle name.

Idk why I’m posting this. Just venting I guess 😪