Please tell me what I can do for my mom friend

Her baby daddy is a complete ass and she’s stressed the fuck out. If I was rich I’d go buy a bunch of groceries for her but I can’t even do that for myself. I’m thinking of just showing up at her house and offering free childcare essentially as long as I visit which would be ab 2 days. She knows I have childcare experience and am CPR certified and they’d be kept alive and fed and entertained while I’m there.

Just go and take a long hot bath, shower, do whatever the heckin shit you wanna do. It’d be kinda hard because she’d be there but I’d be like “stop, go take a bath. Go change your clothes, did your hair red or shave it off I don’t give a shit. Here’s 48 hours childfree within arms length, YOU go do whatever the heck you wanna do we good.

Is this a good idea or no

I do not have children but I am not lost on how hard it can be. She has a 2mo old and a 2 year old. I’m used to 12 one year olds and up to 8 infants at a time. I would be completely fine.

Of course I would not just show up. This girl an hour away. If I’m coming I’m comin 😂 she will know. I didn’t mean it quite literally like that