My ex married my best friend from high school and I feel like they are stalking me.

Faithy

Okay I’m going to try to keep this as short as possible.

My first serious boyfriend I ever had married my high school best friend. My friend and I had a pretty nasty falling out (long story) and we hadn’t talked to eachother in forever like 7 or 8 years. And she has been trying to re insert herself into my life off and o within the past few years but she messed up badly and I resent her too much.

My ex bf and I broke up after being with eachother for 2 years and that was a really nasty toxic situation (he was obsessive and had anger issues) that happend about 12ish years ago maybe even 14. In that time spans he has went through phases were he would reach out to me being apologetic, I would ghost him or block him and then he would make a new account and completely cus me out and call me names, etc. and then I wouldn’t hear from him again for another 2-4 years. It seems to be a cycle.

Now fast forward to around 2 years ago, my ex and ex friend began dating (weird, but hey it’s almost like they were made for eachother) within the two years they have been togeather they have gotten married and have a child. Cool happy for them. But within that two years they have also it almost seems like teamed up in trying to get my attention. He has tried to re add my parents and I on two separate Facebook accounts, to no success. He has also sent me ANOTHER apology message within the 2 year time frame. Witch iv ignored as well. And my ex friend (his wife) he also tried to re add my entire family. (I accepted her idk why but I did before they began dating) my parents ignored it. And she constantly will tag me in posts, mention me in comments and most recently as of 5 days ago poked me on Facebook! I didn’t even realize Facebook still had that feature?! She has even gone as far and been as weird to send me a photo of my ex and I all dress up for prom togeather as if trying to remeiness on my past relationship with him.

And now today I seen for some reason that I will now be investigating, my baby sister added them both on Facebook!!! Now my ex is all up in my little sisters comments talking as if he is the biggest douche that basically stalked and abused her big sister. Him and my ex friend are even going through and hear reacting my parents comments on my little sisters posts.

This whole situation is fucked. Idk why they are so frickin obsessed with me. It’s creeping me out like it’s been years but bringing my baby sister into it is too far.

What would you do in this situation? Every time I block them they have a new account made within what feels like less than a year. 🫠

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