All marriages and husbands

Marie
So just curious about this. I hear a lot of people I know complain about things with their husband and marriage. I.e. Their husbands take everything out on them when they are mad it seems. Or they feel like their husbands treat them differently then they would someone else in a negative way like fighting more, showing little emotions etc. These are just a couple examples. I always thought it was just us ignoring the fact that people say it happens in all marriages until I started hearing people specifically telling me about things that my husband and I fight about exactly. How many of you guys have arguments and fights with your husbands that you might feel are serious or dumb and feel like it's almost not worth it anymore cause you feel like it shouldnt happen that every marriage isn't like that.