I took my daughter to meet a potential daycare provider today and I think it went horribly, but my husband says I was too protective and need to let her just go and let the daycare provider handle it

I went to check out a home daycare provider on Monday because I'm going back to work soon. I am incredibly picky. This lady has three older kids and then my daughter (11 months).

I came for a half day but left after a couple hours and said I wasn't sure it was a good fit. As soon as we arrived, the 4 year old and 5 year old instantly went over to my daughter and tried to hug her and pick her up. My daughter was scared and started to scream. The daycare provider did nothing so I said, "Let's get to know her before we hug her." They continued to try to pick her up so I said "Let's keep her feet on the ground. Only adults can pick her up." The one little girl said that it was ok because she had a baby brother and could take care of her. I said no thank you, we don't pick her up.

I showed her how my daughter likes to play peekaboo and how she loves to crawl after toys. The two little girls would not stop trying to hug her or pick her up and the whole time the daycare provider didn't do anything except say "Hands to ourselves" but didn't do anything to actually enforce it. My daughter was very clingy and did not like them touching her.

Then we went outside. The two girls decided they wanted to take my daughter on the slide. I said no, she's too little for that slide. We were playing with a ball and the daycare provider asked me to step to the side for a minute to chat. We literally walked ten steps away and both girls grabbed my daughter by the wrists and tried to stand her up. Of course she starts screaming. The daycare provider said "hands to ourselves" again but again did nothing to enforce it. I went over and said, "We can't pick her up like that because it hurts" and I told the daycare provider that unfortunately, I don't think it's a good fit.

She texted me later and said that she talked with the girls about how to treat a baby and they're both really good with babies. I said I'd have to think on it.

My husband says it sounds like I was being a helicopter parent. I told him that I didn't have good vibes anyway, but the fact that the two girls were like that and the provider did nothing just put me off. He says the provider probably didn't do anything because I was there.

Should I give her another chance, or just leave it be? I get that older kids are going to interact with her, but the fact that these two girls didn't listen to me and the daycare provider did nothing makes me feel like my daughter is going to get hurt if she stays.