BF unplugged baby cameras while home alone with our child
How would you feel if you left your child at home with your bf/their dad and he unplugged all the baby cameras while you were gone ? That’s weird right?
My bf and me have 2 kids a toddler and a baby. Yesterday morning I went somewhere with my sister and took our baby with me but left our toddler home with my bf bc he was still asleep and I didn’t want to wake him. Our baby sleeps in a crib in our room and there’s a camera mounted on the wall above her crib so I can see her and check on her at night without getting up constantly, the camera rotates and has an app to control it so I can see the whole room if I want to. Right after I left I checked the camera just to make sure my toddler didn’t hear me leave and wake up because I knew he’d be upset when he realized I wasn’t home.
He was still asleep and my bf was laying down with him too going back to sleep so I figured they were fine. About an hour later I went to check the camera again bc my bf wasn’t responding to me so I wanted to see if they were still asleep but the camera was showing “offline” on the app and so was the other camera in the house. For context every half hour the camera automatically “resets” by itself, it spins in a circle then centers back it does that constantly. Well my bf finally text me back 20 or so mins later (I hadn’t even checked the cameras again by this point) and he was going OFF on me over the cameras like throwing a whole fit saying I was “spying” on him and that I’m a creep and that I must have thought he was doing something and that I don’t trust him etc etc. I told him I hadn’t even checked the cameras in a good min bc they were all offline last time I checked them and he still was flipping out over it and said I was a liar and that I was “watching him” bc the camera was moving.
I reminded him that the camera automatically resets every half hour or so and they move by themselves it wasn’t me “spying” on him and he told me I was full of shit. But why would he act like that about the cameras when I’m not home ? Why would it matter if I was checking the cameras ? He wasn’t responding to my texts so I simply checked them to see if our toddler was still in bed. The cameras stay on 24/7 when we’re all home and he’s never had an issue with them until yesterday morning. When I got home I noticed that he unplugged all the cameras and also pointed them towards the ceiling.
The one above my daughters crib is plugged in behind it so he would have had to pull the whole crib out and move it to be able to unplug it. Like why do all that ?? Is that weird?
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