So my husband and I have been together for coming up on 9 years this year. We got married August of this year.

Over the last few months I have felt as if he is building a wall. He seems to always be on his phone reading or watching videos, or he is playing video games. He no longer comes down to bed at decent time and I cant tell you the last time we had sex.

Half the time when I talk to him he doesn’t seem interested and gives me a couple worded answers or just goes back to reading halfway through the conversation and doesn’t even realize I’m talking. I’ve been struggling mentally and have vocalized this but he skips over it and talk about his day and stuff like that (which I want to hear about don’t get me wrong there, just would be nice if he seemed to care about mine).

I’ve tried to tell him how I’ve been feeling but it seems to start an argument or makes him feel like crap.

Just looking for advice on how to handle this. I love him to death but hating this feeling of being ignored.