Would you dump your boyfriend if hes gay ? But hes still attracted to you and loves you ! ?

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My friends boyfriend is gay he came out to me . I told him he better tell her or I will so he told her . she freaked because she thought she was dumping her Btw they are a family they have a baby girl and two boys they're both 20 , any who but he said he's not dumping her he loves her and thinks she completely sexy and stunning but he repulsed by other girls ....

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He doesn't sound gay. He sounds bisexual. He wouldn't still be attracted to her if he was gay.

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Wow it's disgusting to threaten to out someone or force them to come out. That's not only dangerous, but completely not your business. You have absolutely no right to force that on him.

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He sounds confused.

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He seems more bisexual then gay, if he loves you and wants to be with you and your ok with him also having attractions for men than stay with him if your uncomfortable with that maybe you should talk more about it with him and make your decision then.

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He is prob bisexual

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I'd dump him lol... You should not want anyone else besides your SO, yes they may be a time when you think this other girl is attractive. But out of respect of ur spouse you should focus on her and she has to be the center of attention at all times! She deserves it.

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3 kids, not married, not even drinking age? Sounds like a lot of immature decisions. Step back and consider the future carefully - security for kids, finances, stability. He may just be curious, or growing up, but you two are not the only people in the equation.

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If he's attracted to her then he is bi. Or closer to bi. Sexuality is more of a sliding scale with nuanced differences, it's not a set of two or even three boxes that you can shove people into. If he loves her and the have a healthy relationship then what's the deal? Just let them be. Whether he is also attracted to men or not means nothing.

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Firstly, what an awful thing to do, but this isn't a guilt trip. 
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​Secondly, sexuality doesn't belong in a box. On the spectrum of things he can be gay or not. Straight or not. Bisexual or not. Maybe even pay sexual. 
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​Thirdly, regardless of what is sexual orientation or action is, that's a discussion between a mother and a father. With the psychological well bring of children involved it's not as simple is, "you like dudes, it's over.". There's a bigger picture here and all you need to do is support your friends, not instigate.

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He's bisexual and loyal to her...

Would you dump your boyfriend if hes gay ? But hes still attracted to you and loves you ! ?

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