Is a “busy” man worth waiting for?

I need peoples honest opinion, I’ve been talking with a guy for about a month now & I feel like we are getting nowhere/he feels more like a friend. We met once a month ago for an hour at like 1 am after he got out of work. And kissed eachother once.

He works really late, like afternoon until like 10 pm. & we live 30 mins away from each other. On top of that he takes care of his brother who has behavioral issues, and on the weekend he has his son. So it’s genuinely been just a phone/online thing, and part of me is okay with that because I have anxiety but like as we just approached a month talking I feel like I just want more badly. He says one of these times he can get a sitter on the weekend to take me out. But I been waiting and it’s just not happened yet lol.

I want to date someone. Kiss and sleep with someone and get closer. And it feels like that’s not gonna happen here, or atleast not for awhile. He says he wants to date but like I feel like I’m at the bottom of his list of priorities, which I 100% get because he’s actually got things to do, but at the same time why are you trying to date? And I feel bad questioning that, because everyone deserves love it’s just like I don’t know what to do.

It’s like he’s teaching me patience, and that’s probably what the universe is trying to teach me…. Because I lack patience badly but I’m frustrated. I want to be happy and as much as I try to be happy alone I get frustrated on days like today; where people around me get to be happy and in relationships that are healthy.