Need help have patience

Sarah • TTC, chemical, 1 failed IUI, 8 egg retrievals; 43 yo

I had my 8th egg retrieval yday in the last 2+ years. We were fortunate 2 times to get an embryo but one of the transfers led to miscarriage. Given my age, went for another retrieval round yesterday. Retrieved 11, 9 mature and 5 fertilized. I’m with a new clinic who won’t provide an update till day 8. It’s a week away.

It is so hard to just wait. What techniques do you all use during such a wait? How to remain positive and hopeful. How to cope?