Parenting

I have these neighbors and there are Twins two girls and they respond and respect there mom she tells them it's time to come inside and they go running home and she asks to pick up the toys they pick up everything if she asks them to play in a certain area they do. She doesn't allow them to talk to neighbors adults without her present and the girls don't even come close to adults they stay far away, I have noticed these things going on and I'm so happy for her and I wish my child behaved well.

Ages between 7, 8 years old

I have a son and when I ask him to come home he doesn't listen and the girls say you need to respect and listen to your mom she asked you to come inside you need to listen. It's his behavior he doesn't listen wants to do anything everything he wants to do be his own boss his own parent be the adult himself. I have seen children stay with there family and today we were having a family picnic and he went to walk off on his own talk to an adult we barely know it's a neighbor we just wave and he left the property went to there property and I asked him to come back and I called his name I had to physically catch off guard and grab hand say it's time to go. If I'm not able to catch him mostly he will run and say he can do whatever he wants go wherever he wants and he won't leave I call him he doesn't come I explain rules he goes out running not listening. I told him to stay here we are having a family picnic and he went back to the neighbors and that point I had to leave and ask him to come home and he doesn't understand why you can't go by yourself talk to strangers and spend time talking alone with an adult a stranger.

In grocery store he wants to walk off alone, he makes mess doesn't want to pick up the mess he plays with toys says he will keep playing with them and doesn't want to have to set everything back up the next day and I feel like I understand that and if it's something he set up that took a long time I say three days it can stay but by this day I want it to be picked up but then he starts playing and doesn't want to put it away.

The other thing is the running he will run in the house and I have asked him to stop running but he doesn't listen and I don't know how to correct the behavior

What would you do if your child ran in your house did not listen when you asked them to stop running in the house. If they interrupted a family meal to get up have a conversation with an adult that lives in your neighborhood that you don't know and when you called there name and asked them to come home and you asked them to join the family and have a meal together as a family the child directly disobey you left back to the neighbors what do you do?

What are some parenting tips can do at this point