Don’t fudge your friends

TLDR: Ex-bestfriend lover won’t take a hint and I’m an anxious true crime junkie

Okay, maybe I’m paranoid. But my ex best guy friend keeps try to get in contact with me. Long story short, I was married and not happy and I had this friend that I thought genuinely cared for me. All of our mutual friends told us we should be together but I said no we’re just friends.

When my marriage to my narcissistic ex-husband ended, he pounced on the opportunity to be with me. I was extremely vulnerable and thought yeah you know he’s a “nice guy” and always put me first.

I told him I didn’t want a relationship until I was completely healed from my ex. He moved away for work and we kept in contact, until there was a breach of trust. And I told him that I liked us better as friends and I didn’t want a relationship.

I meet my now boyfriend, I move and my ex-whatever starts blowing me up (to the point where his mother called me) and I have since gone to therapy for the things he’s said. I’ve cut all ties and am truly happy… that is until he comes and breaks my peace.

He’s tried to play the whole “I just miss being your friend act” time and time again. And has even made plans with another friend to go to a major city close to where I live. “She said she only lived 20 min away from the airport”. Like bro WTF!

We haven’t had contact in about 3 months, and I’ve honestly thought ok cool he’s over it. Until I wake up this morning to a friend request on Discord of all the places! And I mean this man is blocked ON EVERYTHING. My phone. My MacBook. My Apple watch. Emails. Fb. Insta. Snapchat. WHATSAPP! Even my Cashapp. PayPal. And Zelle.

Should I just keep ignoring this. I don’t like pulling our mutual friends into this but will it ever end?