I spoke up to my sneaky link…

Hi,

So I’m such a lover girl, having a “sneaky link” is hard. Anyways though, me and my sneaky link have been having sex on and off since last summer . None of the times we have had sex, have he kissed me. I LOVE to kiss during sex rather it’s a sneaky link or not. I just feel like kissing is the “icing on the cake”.

So I questioned him bc I wanted to know his viewpoint of kissing during sex. He stated he views it as intimate and that it would have to be the right time/ moment for kissing during sex.

The kissing part does kind of bother me bc I dont want to feel like a pumping machine, however, I do enjoy overall having sex with him. It’s not a deal breaker, but it’s def a no go for if I was in a relationship with a man.

So am I wrong for wanting to kiss my sneaky link? Did I go over board with the question?

I’m proud of myself for speaking up bc if this was five years ago, I would not have said anything bc I’m typically timid to my needs/ wants.