Second post update about asking is this mental abuse.

Hey guys thanks for your feed back on my last post and I understand some confusion where I saw one person say that just asking about where I’m going isn’t mental abuse and is something else going on. Which is correct simply asking isn’t the issue usually I will say I’m going to the store to pick up some things, only if he might have been sleep or ran out himself and if he just so happens to see me getting dressed he gives me this stare as if I did something wrong and I absolutely hate it. It makes me so uncomfortable to the point I don’t even like going out. I don’t go out with friends or co workers and some times family now because of he will give me this uncomfortable death stare and it just sends my anxiety through the roof my heart starts immediately beating and I have to calm down inside the car. I have so much social anxiety now and I never was like this before meeting him. It wasn’t until recently I’m like this needs to end because I’m like how is it fair that he comes and goes as he pleases and if I just so happen to go to the store 5 minutes away he has attitude. I should have picked up on the red flags before. He use to want to go to the store for me or he insist on coming everywhere with me but if a guy even looks my way he’s ready to fight and I thought that behavior was so embarrassing so I told him no I can go alone. So he got it in his head I’m doing something because I won’t allow him to go everywhere with me anymore and I mentioned in the last post how he is known to cheat and lie. He doesn’t believe a word I say even though I’ve been nothing but loyal to him and he did the opposite to me. He says to me I haven’t did anything wrong to you since the last time and you keep holding on to that. I said because it’s always been you and you keep accusing me of stuff that I don’t do. And soon as I say anything about him possibly still doing something he would immediately switch it back on me like I could be doing anything and saying how I’m so secretive.