I just got out of a 10 year relationship, 5 year marriage 7 months ago.

I met this guy and we talked for two months and we definitely hit it off, but now I feel like what I did when I was in my last relationship & I don’t want that. I already explained that to the guy and he didn’t respond to it besides saying that he didn’t want to leave.

The bad part is he met my kids and my kids like him but I was stuck in my last relationship and I don’t want to go through that again. I want to enjoy my freedom with my kids.

Am I being selfish? What should I do?