Is it normal to feel disgust when your partner touches you?

Question

Me and my husband have been together ab 7 years now, married 3. Our relationship has always been rocky and a lot of ups and downs. We separated last year, got back together, things were good then it went right back down hill. It’s at the point of me being totally checked out. I’m not attracted to him, but it’s gotten to the point of if he touches me in any sexual way I literally feel like I need to shower and panicky. Does this just come from resentment or buildup or anger that leads to just disgust??😭

Answer

Could be all three. You resent him, you’re disgusted by him and honestly it just sounds like you simply don’t like him anymore. It’s okay to separate or leave to figure out what you want. You’re wasting each others time at this point.

Answer

Yes, that can definitely be caused by a build up of resentment, anger and being unattracted to someone you once found attractive. Speaking from experience, if you feel that way it’s probably time to think about leaving for good or it could get worse for you, to the point where you will feel like you need to shower if he even puts a finger on you. It can escalate into OCD tendencies very easily.

Answer

I feel like it may be time to separate for good. If my man felt that way about me, I would be deeply hurt. Please, for the sake of you and your partner, talk about this and go your separate ways. It takes two for a life long commitment and if you are checked out, it just won’t work. It’s not your fault, you aren’t a horrible person, it’s just how life is. You got this!

Is it normal to feel disgust when your partner touches you?

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