He wants separation- and sex with others

I moved out after my husband asked me for a divorce.

We had been having issues and it finally reached its breaking point.

We separated I moved out and we went out to dinner after about 2 weeks had passed by.

I asked him if he had slept with anyone else, his reply was “ I don’t want to lie to you, yes I met someone on tinder and we hooked up”

My heart fucking sank.

I can feel my chest pounding and all I basically said was wow ok… alright. As tears just streamed down my face.

A couple days later we got in an argument and I brought up how I’m over here crying missing my husband and he’s out busy getting his dick wet.

I finally got to a point where I said “what day will you be home” he said why?

I said I would like to have you served for a divorce, his response…. I’m not telling you.

Can anyone riddle me this mans way of thinking?

You don’t want a divorce but you want this life?!

As of yesterday I went no contact…..

By the end of the day I got a text that said

“this is me trying to be civil how are you feeling?

I didn’t even respond… what a backhanded text.

Can anyone help me and give me insight or a mans way of thinking.