What to do if u feel ur husband is unhappy with u? I've tried changing.. we talk and he is just harsh.. it's a me problem he says.. no i just won't take bullshit.. like he moans about everything because i'm not traditional.. dude we been together 6 years.. i'm not converting.. but then says he loves me and i'm only one for him.. he doesn't cheat.. all love our families.. friends.. i don't drink.. eat halal.. wear nice clothes.. so he want's one thing but then moans. Edit: Thank you Christine.. how do u ignore it? Walk away? Cry somewhere private.. go for a walk to fight the angrier? Unfortunately i can't do these things as we have children.. what makes u happy?