Bf tried to say it was me when it wasn’t

We were talking about my bf’s birthday and what he wanted to do and he said not spend it with me and his daughter and then said he wanted to do his own thing. Like ok. And then I said last year you wanted to go day drinking and we went and then he said yea with your dad (they have the same birthday) & I just told him that I didn’t invite him he did and his response was I’m pretty sure I don’t and pretty sure you did. He was the one that invited him and I got blamed for it. Then said every birthday I have to share with your dad. Like it’s not even true.. one year I went to my sisters graduation and it landed on his birthday and then was upset because we were going to go eat for her graduation and I invited him and told him like let’s go & he got mad and said no because it’s his birthday and I didn’t plan anything for him. But yet he hates Suprises like this man can say one thing and then say a different thing.