Sex & Relationships
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Worries & Ponders
I'm married to my husband for a year now.
During my dating era, i was sexually active with my dating partners. Consider on the high side & sometimes using safety precautions, sometimes "on the outside" .
When I was dating my husband, back then is boyfriend, we also had some intimacy, sexual life then with safety precautions.
We dated for a year & the sex drive drop tremedously. Partly because we were both exhausted at the end of the day or when it happens to be menses period.
Then in our 2nd year of relationship, we started to plan for our wedding after he proposed to me.
We did not have sex even on our wedding night because we were both drunk & dead tired.
In our 1st year of marriage, we tried to have sex a couple of times but it was unsuccessful. He couldnt enter into me. I'm not enjoying any foreplay or the sex so I wasnt consider "having the mood" .
I dislike the way my husband kisses me & his foreplay doesnt "activiate" me at all.
I dont know what to do. I tried to watch Adult films to get myself "high" to be intimate with my husband but no improvement.
Sometimes I will think about the active sex life that I had with my previous dating partners.
Is it because I'm not sexually attracted to my husband? Or he is not "skillful" enough to get me high. I'm his first girlfriend, now is wife status.
I really want to have a baby with him & expand our family.
I dont know how to improve or change the current situation at all.
Anyone facing the same issue as me?